How will you know when She is not that into you?

It has been years since i logged on here. i am still alive and well. Life is going on but certain things have evolved. I have come to notice that our dear darkie brothers (black guys) are still clueless when it comes to identifying signs from a girl that is into them from those who aren't. I once posted on this but i feel it i need remind a few people. It's 2020 and there is no way that I going to sit back and watch darkie brothers fooling themselves only to gain nothing in the end. So here are a few signs that one can look out for when they have been talking with a girl for some time but not much is happening: 1. If she never agrees to your dates that you have gone out of your way to plan, she probably doesn't want to be seen in public with you. This girl will often want to suggest things such as going out for drinks at loud places where no one cares who's with whom.If she agrees to your lunch/dinner date she would probably not make much effort to look good etc. 2. If she does not sleep with you (obviously this only applies after some time of dating), now don't get me wrong on this one. There are girls who have chosen abstinence, so you will need to understand first before you apply this rule. You often hear of girls that were not sleeping with their boyfriends during the 6 months of dating but somehow managed to get impregnated by another guy. it does not need to get to that stage if your eyes are open. Always remember to be respectful though whatever her choice is. 3. If a girl never asks you any personal question e.g. about your family, well-being, your interests etc. chances are she is self absorbed and does not really care about getting to know you. 4. If after you have shared your likes and dislikes and she continues to do the opposite at every opportunity, she is definitely not into. Girls like to impress just like guys. If we hear that a guy loves his toasted cheese sandwich, you will find us at a grocery store buying the most delicious cheese and the freshest bread to make you that special favorite sandwich. If you find that after some time of dating she is still not catching on what you like or dislike, that girl does not care much about you brother. 5. if she never initiates conversation with you after days of getting to know each other, she is not interested in your well being. 6. If she calls you by the following names: bhuti, abuti, bro etc. If she like you, she will even call you by your clan names or just use your name. 7. If she never cooks for you, this cooking includes even frying eggs for breakfast or even warming up leftovers. Forget it, she isn't into you. We are nurturer by nature and we wouldn't starve our men if we woke up with them. TBC