Mr, she may Not be into you afterall...

I am a bit tired of being told of what signs to look out for, to determine if the guy likes you or not. Yawn!
well i think as wonen we also have have a say in determining who we would like to be into us or not.Books have been written, websites created, movies made and songs sung advising women with all sorts of warnings. Beyonce in her last album told the worl Girls Run The World! And i couldnt agree more.

Here is my point men are confused when it comes to women, they have these pictueres in their heads about the type of women they would die to meet. When they do happen to meet them , they then realize they have no game plan whatsoever. The wake up call is Dude! She may be your dream girl, but are You her dream guy? I am most certain a lot of guys never ask themselves this question. Or they never take the initiative to find out if they are on the right track or not.

Dont get me wrong I am for good relationships and so on, but people must show some dedication. And so I have a few points that I would like our fellow brothers to consider when  going after a girl, these are merely signs that she is NOT into you, and you must back off and not waste anymore of your time and other resources.

Signs that She is Not That Into You:

1. If she doesnt or never returns your missed calls
2. if she never initiates a conversation with you, via calls, or messages
3. if she only calls you when she needs help, 
4. if she never asks about your family, where you come from etc
5. if she never initiates any outing or activity for the both of you.

Ponder on these gentlemen, and give me feedback. I am no relstionship guru, but i belive there are guys out there who need a wake up call, because they may not have as much game as they thought they had 5 or 10 years ago.

Women have power over who they want, so know when to stop pursuing her.

Salute! ♥

Excuses, oh so unpleasant

At the age of 30 that i am in, certain things just make no sense. Here i am referring to conversations i hold with adults my age or older. Today i will only make reference to the frogs i meet claiming to like me and wanting to date me.

Question is what their actions say? Ok we are not there today. This lame excuse i have heard many times since the beginning of 2013! I didnt think we would still be hearing such lines from grown men in the 21st century. 'I am busy/ was busy' Very lame. I asked this one frog what he meant by that line when he was telling me why he had not called for a whole week and weekend, was he running the country? Managing offshore accounts? CEO for multiple companies? No, I thought not. He also laughed at his pathetic excuse and agreed that I was making sense. If you claim to like someone, your actions should support your spoken word.  Unfortunately he will not be be getting any chance with me, seeing that he started on a bad slate already.

I cannot and will not accept mediocrity! Grown ups should behave like grown ups. If you say you will do something, do it! If you cant, say so. If you tolerate this I can assure you that your children will be next!

Watch out guys, clean up your act and communicate better. Believe me you will begin to see wonders.

Salute!  ♥

Body talk

I woke up with a splitting headache today, now that never or hardly ever happens to me. i continued with h my usual routine, shower, eat , find something to wear etc. .after all this the headache persisted. I le gft the house to come to Rosebank, as i had a few things to do here. After sending my twin's gift via courier services i then decided to sit at Ninos. Did some work kn my tablet, orderd a cup of five roses with soya milk and drank two cups. Now usually when i feel heavy and tired this tea revives me, oh no not today. 

I had to then resort to taking a pain killer, because i saw that if i didnt my head would crack!!...it hit me right there when a thought crossedbmy mind, i am now 30 and clearly my body will be slower in reacting to remedies such as a cup of tea to cure a headache.

i feel better now having taken a pain tablet. I am even surprised myself tobbe admitting to such. All i can say is let us appreciate our lives, maintain a healthy lifestyle and learn to listen to our bodies when they cry out to us and respond accordingly.

i hope i have learnt something from this and hopefully i can have the ability to help someone in future who finds themselves in my situation.

salute! :